Hi Guys, and thanks for this woderful opportuities to share our secrets, and get advise and helps.
I have a Girlfriend i met on a dating site and i love her so much, and we have been dating since february 2012, and it has been a loving relationship so far, till i discovered something shady about her that she has sex addiction due to marijuana addiction. I have smoked weed before, but i have never been the type who use my money or addcited, just when amonsgt friends, and i was blessed, i could stop anythig when i want to, so i have not taken it for donkey years, however with my gf, she took weed d first time she came to england 2011, and got introduced to weed by her ex, whom use weed as sex stimulant and that was how it all began with her, she never thought sex could be good without weed. When we met, we had a discussion abut weed and told her my experience, but told her i will not advise anybody who could get addictive to even start at all, i think because of how i spoke against weed taking that day, made her keep the secret from me that she smokes it, but she just tod me she is like me that she took it once or twice just to check but stopped.
However i was able to find out the truth about her after months she has been avoiding me, despite showing and confessing her love for me, she avoided seeing me for two months, which i couldn't understand why, but eventually at our meeting, i pretended not to be angry and made some research into her mails when she was asleep, and found out she has been hanging out with her ex cause of weed and sex, as well meeting other guys for sex. I was dissapointed, but determined to know why she did it before taking my final decision.
She later admitted cheating and confessed to me she cheated on me with his ex and four other different guys from the site we met, and she told me about her addiction to weed and how it made her wanna have sex uncontrollably. She said anytime she is alone and just have a thought about weed, she gets horny uncontrollablly, and just grab the nearest man. She said she has tried to control this feeling lots of time but could not, and just llive with the guilt and regret after doing it, and that she is particularly attracted to guys who tell her they smoke weed, and that she couldnt confide in me cause she thought i will judge her.
Luckily for me i did a blood test and was free of any infection as well as her too, but the relationship has been dented beyond repair, cause of her action, irrespective of if she is to be blamed or not. I resolved to help her seek help about sex addiction triggered by marijuana addiction, cause that is all i could do for her to prove i love her and will support her, even if we stop dating.
I know this forum is about trying to quit Marijuana, i dont know if there is another person who has experienced this before and was able to escape, maybe they could give me tips to use with her, or where to take her for help, or just what to do. I agree this are two great addiction of great things of interest, WEED and SEX an explosive combination from my personal experience but was never addicted when i ued to do it, as i still have sex normly and enjoy it, so donno how to help her, i have been reading stuffs online, but it has been on the peripheral. Please i will appreciate a first hand information from someome who has gone through this experience before and come back clean, or whoevere knows a way out about treatment for sex addiction as well as marijuana.